Pass-A-Long Cards

I made some simple pass along cards last week.  At our adoption education classes they told us the number one way people find their birth families is through word of mouth.  This happens when someone knows someone, who knows someone, who tells them about us and can give them our card.  I almost bought some cards online, but I enjoy designing stuff so I made them myself.  I might even make a few different ones.  We'll see!  I hope to get them printed and have them back in a few weeks so if you would like a couple please e-mail your mailing address to lacealex@yahoo.com  You never know who you'll run in to!  It's the sweetest thing when people tell me they're keeping their ears open for potential mothers wanting to place.  Other than keeping us in your prayers, that is the biggest way to help us out right now.  Thank you everyone for your strength and kind words at this time!

Why Not?

If you are Helpless, He is not.  If you are Lost, He is Not.  If you don't know what to do next, He knows.  It would take a miracle, you say?  Well, if it takes a miracle, why not?  President Boyd K. Packer

I read this in the March 2010 Ensign this morning.  Waiting is hard.  I'm ready for a miracle.  Some days it feels so far away.  I've never relied so much on the Lord as I have during this time.  A BIG thing I've learned through this experience is that prayers aren't always answered in the time we choose, but the Lord is there to lift our burdens and help us endure.  I have felt this first hand.  I've also learned you can be happy through life trials.  I don't mean BEFORE or AFTER your trial, I mean DURING.  It takes a lot of work, but it's possible.  You have to feel the PAIN so you know the JOY.  It's taken a long, long, long, time to get where I am and I still have some real downer times, but I'm thankful and blessed for the things I have learned while wading through a sea of disappointments.  

*I know my post is all over the place, so you can imagine what the inside of my head is like right now. 

A Lucky Girl

We recently celebrated out 6th anniversary. It was my turn to plan and thanks to Tricia and Brad I surprised Gregg and we took off to St. George. I packed all our bags and when Gregg got home from work we got in the car and left. He had no idea what was going on. (I even made him drive.) About 20 miles outside of St. George he said "okay, I just need to know if we have 20 miles left or a 130." I lied and said 130, but then felt bad and told him the truth. It ended up pouring rain most of the time, but it was still a wonderful get-a-way.

So here goes the 600 things I love about us....

1. I'm totally kidding and realize even if I did write 600 things no one would read them. But, here ARE a few funny things that I would like to remember about our trip.

-Me forgetting Gregg's hair pomade. Going to Walgreen's, buying the generic brand of LA Looks for .99. Gregg applying it to his hair in the car. Using a 1/3 of it just to get a little bit of hair standing up. Us, laughing that I would EVER buy such horrible hair product, but that I would rather Gregg do his hair with something then nothing at all. Hey, I'm a hairstylist.

-Being called KIDDOS by our waiter who was probably our age. Gregg's salmon being completely raw in the middle. Waiter telling us, if we didn't want it that way, we should have said so in the beginning because that's the way the chef prefers it. (what?!)  Waiter later apologizing, admitting it was pretty raw.  Getting free Creme Brulee, just for us kiddos.  

-Playing Bananagrams on our phones while waiting for the movie to start.  No one else in the theater until, a group walks in and sits right next to us. 

-Searching for shopping places on our phones.  Gregg finding a shopping center in Hurricane.  Driving there in the pouring rain.  Find out our shopping center is a FUNERAL HOME, FURNITURE STORE, and two empty spaces.  Gregg, doing a circle around the "shopping center".  Me laughing hysterical, asking Gregg if he would like to shop for our caskets.   Driving back to St. George, in sprinkling rain. 

-Googleing  sites around St. George.  Discovering there is volcanoes.  Driving to them.  Two tiny black hills.  Take pictures anyway, because we drove all that way. 

-Spending time doing anything, with the one I love...Priceless.

Guess Who's Back?

ME!

My computer is now back at home and I am back in service. I'll just start by confronting the elephant in the room. No, we haven't heard anything. That seems to be the #1 question when people see me. We're doing great though, and are at peace. We know things will happen when it's right. I think everyone hears stories of people chosen within weeks of getting approved, and in all honesty this is unlikely. That's why the stories get spread around, because it's very uncommon. Did I hope that would happen to us? Of course, but we really feel at ease about how things are going.

Now on to funner things...Here's a few pics from Christmas.

This was my present for our famous white elephant exchange. Stacey was the lucky winner. I'm sure it's posted in her room.

Classic movie...Don't ya just love it?

Our little Hercanator doing what he knows best in Idaho. Hiding.